men cannot grasp that women's point for maximum attraction to muscles is a full standard deviation smaller than they assume
women cannot grasp that men's point for maximum attraction to thinness is a full standard deviation fatter than they assume
@Michael_DrugganI spent 14 years of bodybuilding to look like this. The girl I'm in love with is dating a guy who can't bench 135lb. He's not even rich. Kill me now. pic.twitter.com/ZHTBns6IoJ
there's no amount of surveys or arguments that will bridge this communication gap. women just look in the mirror and genuinely think they look better when they're emaciated skeletons, men when they're hulks, and that's nearly impossible to get over.